Secrets 101: I Caught My Boyfriend In Bed With My Dad (Who’s a Pastor), Few Weeks To Our Wedding.

Agyeiwaa is a 25-year-old lady who stays in Accra in the Greater Accra region of Ghana. She is the daughter of one of the most popular pastors in Ghana. As the daughter of a pastor, Agyeiwaa grew very well in Christianity and never played with her Christian values and services. Since her childhood, Agyeiwaa has been part of the ministers in her church and has risen through the ranks to become one of the best singers in the church.

As she was maturing, she had a boyfriend from campus whom she dated for some time. Due to Agyeiwaa’s strong Christian background, she indicated to the guy that she would not like to practice sex before marriage, so the guy should start preparing to marry her before they can have any sexual intercourse.

At the initial stage, the guy agreed, but with time he started to give me pressure regarding sexual intercourse. Peer pressure was too extreme for him so he was always demanding sex from Agyeiwaa. This made the relationship collapse because Agyeiwaa had her morals in high esteem; she did not want to have sex with any man before marriage.

One day her father, the pastor, called her and discussed with her that he would like Agyeiwaa to marry one of the church instrumentalists, particularly a guy called Charles. Initially, Agyeiwaa did not want to grant her father’s request, but the pastor insisted and even went ahead to explain that instrumentalists are hard to come by these days, so marrying the guy would ensure that Charles stays in the church forever, and would not be the case where he the pastor will have to search for instrumentalists anymore.

That made Agyeiwaa agree to her father’s plea and start a relationship with Charles, the instrumentalist. Agyeiwaa told Charles about her morals of not having sex before marriage. Charles agrees to it and also suggests that at least they should be able to play romance once in a while, and not necessarily have sex.

One day Charles visited Agyeiwaa and after some usual conversation in Agyeiwaa’s bedroom, Charles and Agyeiwaa engaged in romance. Agyeiwaa’s father barged in to see Charles and Agyeiwaa kissing. This made the pastor very angry and he had to speak very furiously to Agyeiwaa. He cautioned Agyeiwaa not to engage in any sexually related acts with Charles because that is the period to study each other and not to engage in any sexual acts.

Agyeiwaa felt very bad because of the respect she had for him. She pleaded with her father and promised him such a thing would never happen again.

Agyeiwaa’s mother and younger sister traveled to the United States of America for the graduation ceremony of her elderly brother. This left only Agyeiwaa and her father alone together with the security guard in the house.

One day, Charles visited Agyeiwaa and her father again, and after some minutes Agyeiwaa’s father the pastor sent her to buy some stuff from town. She quickly got the car keys and decided to drive out. The security guard did not come to work that day, so Agyeiwaa had to move the car out and come back to inform her father to lock the main gate and also stay on alert to open then gate when she returned.

After Agyeiwaa parked the vehicle outside and stepped inside the house to inform her father about the main gate, she had a phone call and spoke for minutes on the phone. After the call, she checked from the main hall, her father’s bedroom, and her bedroom, but still did not find where exactly her father and Charles had moved to within that short time.

Agyeiwaa then recalled that anytime Charles visited the pastor, they normally went to her father’s office to discuss issues. So agyeiwaa went to the office to check if they were there, only to see that her father, the pastor was having sexual intercourse with Charles, her boyfriend who also is the church instrumentalist.

This made Agyeiwaa shout at them and leave the house. She went outside to stay with certain ladies for weeks. Charles kept calling her for reconciliation. Her father kept calling her to come home, but she never paid heed to the call. Watch the video here to listen to the advice Agyeiwaa received from pastor Elisha Osei Kofi.